Knead the whole wheat flour with 1 tablespoon ghee, required amount of salt and water to make a medium soft dough. Finish kneading with little oil and let the dough rest for 10-15 minutes.
For making the stuffing, boil the green peas in open on high flame for 5-6 minutes. The peas need not be fully cooked.
Drain the peas and transfer to cold water immediately to retain the green colour.
Now drain the peas again and transfer to kitchen towel. Rub well and let it sit on the towel for 3 to 4 minutes till the water is completely absorbed.
In a mixer jar, add 2 green chillies, 1 inch ginger and fresh coriander and mint leaves. Grind to a fine paste.
Now add the cooked and dried peas to the mixer jar and just pulse grind to a coarse paste.
Transfer the ground peas mixture to a plate. Grate the paneer also onto the plate. Add roasted gram flour and all the remaining dry spices and salt to taste. Mix well.
If the mixture looks wet, you can add one more tablespoon of gram flour and mix. The stuffing is ready now.
Now take a large portion of the wheat flour dough and roll into a ball. Now slightly roll this using a rolling pin and place a generous amount of stuffing in the centre.
Gently fold together all the edges to cover the stuffing (just like a modak)
Now gently press the dough and flatten it using your hand to distribute the stuffing evenly. It is important to enlarge the roti using hand as it would avoid the filling from coming out.
Dust the roti thoroughly on both sides with dry wheat flour and gently roll it using a rolling pin to a medium thick paratha.
Heat iron tawa and transfer the rolled paratha to the tawa. Let it cook for 30 seconds on this side before it is flipped.
Now let it cook on other side for 15-20 seconds and then pour some ghee or oil and cook on medium flame. Press the paratha to get a crisp and flaky texture.
Flip one more time and add ghee or oil on other side too. Press and cook further, till it is golden brown. Finally grease the cooked parathas with butter. Continue cooking the remaining parathas.